Introduction
Who this guide is for
This step-by-step guide is for you if:
- you want an interim order; and
- you and the other party agree about what the order should say. (An order you both agree on is called a consent order.)
If you have children, this guide can help you get interim orders before you do your own uncontested divorce. This guide won't tell you how to apply for a divorce.
About this guide
If you and the other person agree on the terms to get a family order, you can use this guide to apply to the court for a consent order.
This guide has information about:
- the documents you need to collect,
- the forms you need to prepare,
- the time periods you have to work with, and
- what you can expect.
Even if you and the other party agree on everything, you still have to prepare documents and pay fees to get a court order. To find out how much the fees are, see Appendix C of the Supreme Court Family Rules.
How to get a court order or agreement without using this guide
There are other processes you can use to get court orders when you agree. These are outlined below.
Orders made at a Judicial Case Conference
You can request a Judicial Case Conference (JCC) and ask the judge or master to make the order you both want. There's less paperwork involved in this procedure. You can simply tell the judge in person what you agree to rather than having to put it down in written sworn documents. See Judicial Case Conferences in Supreme Court.
Then you need to appear before a judge or master in Chambers to ask them to make the order by consent.
Notice of Joint Family Claim
If you and the other party agree from the very beginning on how you want to resolve all your family issues, you and the other party can file a Notice of Joint Family Claim (Form F1). This form tells the court that:
- you're both jointly starting the lawsuit, and
- agree on what you want the court to order.
The advantage of joint pleadings is that you don't have to serve documents on the other party. Use this method only if you're very certain right from the start that you agree to everything. If it turns out that you don't agree later, you'll have to file a withdrawal of the joint pleadings to convert the matter into a regular lawsuit.
You can file your joint pleadings and the material for a desk order all at the same time.
Agreements (not going to court at all)
If you don't need or want to have a court order, you and the other party can:
- draw up a written agreement, and
- file a signed copy of it in the court registry.
Once filed, those parts of the agreement that deal with parenting and support are as enforceable as if the agreement were a court order. You can do this without starting a court action and going through the steps in this guide.
Get legal help
It's a good idea to get some legal help before you use this guide. If you can't afford a lawyer, you can get legal help in other ways, including:
- Lawyer Referral Service
- free (pro bono) legal clinics
- family duty counsel
- family advice lawyers
- family justice counsellors
Staff at Justice Access Centres in Abbotsford, Nanaimo, Surrey, Victoria, and Vancouver can also answer your questions and help you fill out forms.
For information about legal aid, see the Legal Aid BC website.
Look through this guide and take it one step at a time. You don't have to do it all at once.